I need to overcome a huge sexual slump! please help!?

PLEASE DONT FEEL ALONE...I BELIEVE WHAT U SHOULD DO IS REALIZE HE LIKES U FOR U FIRST. EVERYONE SOMETIMES WORRIES IF THEY WILL BE GOOD OR BAD IN BED AT ONE POINT IN THERE LIFE OR WHEN THEY GET IN A NEW RELATIONSHIP. IF U TRY TO FOCUS ON HIM AND HOW HE TURNS U ON THEN U WONT B WORRYING ABOUT GETTING SOFT..ALSO TELL HIM ITS NOT HIM THAT MAKES U SOFT. JUST TRY TO B COMFORTABLE AS BEST AS U CAN...LET ME SAY ALSO THAT IVE BEEN WITH MY MAN FOR 8 YRS NOW AND HES ALWAYS HAD A ISSUE WITH PLEASING ME(IN HIS MIND) BECAUSE HE RELEASES WITHIN 5 MINS DEPENDING BUT THAT DOESNT BOTHER ME AT ALL AND IF IT DID THEN I WOULD BE SHALLOW AND NOT EVEN WORTH WASTING TIME OVER ANYWAYS. SO IF UR MAN THINKS THE SAME AS U THEN HES NOT EVEN WORTH TALKING TO ANYWAYS. ....WELL I HOPE I SOMEWHAT HELP. JUST KNOW YOULL BE FINE AND PRACTICE MAKES PERFECT;) LOL